How to Use a Bidet: 3 Different Models

A standalone bidet is the older, more traditional type of bidet. It is a separate unit placed next to the toilet and looks like a low sink or a toilet bowl without a seat. This type is commonly found in Europe and in some hotels around the world.

Step 1: Use the toilet first

Always use the toilet before using the bidet. The bidet is meant only for cleaning after you've finished.

Step 2: Check the water temperature

Many standalone bidets have both hot and cold taps. Turn them slowly to check and adjust the temperature. Make sure it’s warm and comfortable before using.

Step 3: Sit or straddle the bidet

You can sit on the bidet either facing the controls or away from them. Choose the direction that lets you control the water easily and feels natural to you.

Step 4: Adjust the water flow

Turn the tap slowly to control the water pressure. Make sure the stream is gentle enough for comfort but strong enough to clean properly.

Step 5: Clean yourself with water

Let the water rinse your private area. You may gently use your hands to guide the water and help with cleaning. Be sure to use clean hands before and after.

Step 6: Dry off

Use clean toilet paper or a small towel to dry yourself. Pat the area gently instead of rubbing to avoid irritation.

Step 7: Flush the bidet (if needed)

As a courtesy, flush or rinse the bidet if there’s a flushing option. This helps keep it clean and ready for the next user.

Step 8: Wash your hands

Always wash your hands well with soap and water after using the toilet and bidet.

A built-in bidet is part of the toilet seat. It usually has buttons or a remote to control the spray. These are common in modern homes and hotels in countries like Japan and South Korea.

Step 1: Use the toilet first

Use the toilet before using the bidet function. Stay seated after finishing.

Step 2: Find the control panel

Look for buttons on the side of the seat or on a nearby remote. These buttons manage the spray settings.

Step 3: Press the cleaning button

Press the button to start the cleaning spray. A nozzle will slide out and spray water at the area that needs cleaning.

Step 4: Adjust the settings if needed

Use the controls to change the water pressure or temperature. Find a setting that feels soft and pleasant.

Step 5: Let it finish cleaning

Wait for the spray to finish. It usually runs for a few seconds and then stops automatically.

Step 6: Use the dryer (optional)

If the bidet has a dryer, press the button to blow warm air. This can help you feel dry without needing paper.

Step 7: Wipe if necessary

If you still feel damp, use a small amount of toilet paper to dry off completely.

Step 8: Wash your hands

Always clean your hands with soap and water once you’re done.

A hand or spray bidet is a small spray nozzle attached to a hose. It is usually placed next to the toilet and works like a mini shower. These are common in Southeast Asia and the Middle East.

Step 1: Use the toilet first

Finish using the toilet before starting to clean yourself with the spray.

Step 2: Hold the spray nozzle

Pick up the nozzle in your dominant hand. Make sure the hose has enough length for comfortable use.

Step 3: Control the water pressure

Gently press the handle or turn the valve. Start slowly to avoid spraying too hard.

Step 4: Aim and spray

Point the nozzle at the area you want to clean. Move it slightly if needed to cover all areas gently.

Step 5: Stop the spray

Let go of the handle or turn off the valve to stop the water once you're done.

Step 6: Dry yourself

Use toilet paper or a clean towel to pat the area dry. Make sure you feel clean and comfortable.

Step 7: Put the nozzle back

Place the nozzle back in its holder so it stays neat and ready for the next use.

Step 8: Wash your hands

Clean your hands properly with soap and water to finish.

Using different types of bidets can be easy once you know the steps. Whether you use a standalone, built-in, or hand bidet, it helps keep you clean and fresh. Now that you know how to use a bidet in all its forms, you can feel ready and confident wherever you go.